Real talk, helpful recs, and smart shortcuts for moms who don’t have time to waste. From baby gear breakdowns to working mom survival tools, I cover what actually works — with a little humor, a little sass, and zero gatekeeping.
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Things I Bought In June I Don’t Regret
June was full of random Amazon packages, but these five items actually earned their spot in my life. No buyer's remorse here. For these things anyway…
Olivia Garden NanoThermic Ceramic + Ion Round Thermal Hair Brush
Blowouts at home? Yes, please. This brush helps me fake a salon visit with smooth, shiny, bouncy hair every time. If you have hair and want that professional finish, this brush delivers. You do not have to be a pro to get results, I promise.
Shop it here: https://amzn.to/4k4kpQz
LitBear Silk Sleep Mask for Side Sleeper
I have an extreme sleep setup. Hello?! I’m over 40, I need all the help I can get in the sleep department. A sleep mask has been a part of the line up for a while now, but this one changed the game. The 22 momme mulberry silk is buttery soft, it doesn't make me hot as hell, and the adjustable band means I can loosen it or tighten it, depending on my sensory needs.
Shop it here: https://amzn.to/4ehXiAT
Carroten Intensive Tanning Gel
You want a hot mom tan? This will get you one. The carrot and coconut oil blend smells like vacation, goes on smooth, and accelerates my tan beautifully. Literally, you’ll be golden in 15 minutes. Its a little greasy at first, so use and sit with caution.
Shop it here: https://amzn.to/4efbaLV
Folding Outdoor Lounge Chair with Canopy
My ultimate mom hack for beach days, pool days, and honestly just sitting outside pretending I'm on vacation. The built-in canopy is clutch for shade, it adjusts to five positions, and folds up easily with carry handles. Total summer MVP.
Shop it here: https://amzn.to/43XtSo5
Dove Visible Glow Gradual Self-Tan Lotion (Dark)
For the days I don't make it outside, this lotion keeps my tan looking fresh and natural. It gives a gradual, even glow without the dreaded self-tanner streaks or that awful smell. Bonus: my skin feels super moisturized too.
Shop it here: https://amzn.to/3Gbw02h
There you have it — my June buys that actually delivered. If you snagged something amazing this month, tell me so I can add it to next month’s list (because clearly, I have no self-control).
Follow me on Instagram for more of my unsolicited opinions @sarahknowsherstuff
My Favorite Summer Gear (aka How to Survive the Heat With Kids and Your Sanity Intact)
It’s hot. The kids are sticky. Your patience is melting faster than a popsicle on a sidewalk. But don’t worry, I've got you covered with my favorite summer gear that actually makes life easier (and sometimes a little more fun).
Here’s what’s making summer smoother and a heck of a lot cooler around here:
🚼 1. The Ultimate Wagon Stroller
If your summer includes park days, zoo trips, or even just navigating the neighborhood like a boss, a wagon stroller is a game-changer.
🛒 Pro Choice: Radio Flyer Wagon
💡 Best Wagon Strollers Roundup – Today’s Parent: “Stroller wagons are so amazing for a variety of places,” says Baby Gear Product Expert Sarah Huff, senior manager of community and customer at BabyQuip. “Throw everything in for the pool or beach, carry the kiddos at the zoo with room for snacks and all the extras, and head to some theme parks (sorry, no Disney) with your stroller wagon piled up with jackets, your diaper bag, a change of clothes—you name it.”
💦 2. Water Table = Sanity Saver
A good water table buys you 30+ minutes of outdoor play and at least 10 sips of your iced Coke Zero in peace. It’s not just a toy—it’s a parenting hack.
🛒 My Favorites: The Best Water Tables for Summer
🧊 3. Clip-On Stroller Fan (aka my hero)
Hot babies = cranky babies. Clip-on fans are a summer stroller must-have. I even clip one to the patio chair so I can pretend I’m lounging at a spa instead of dodging bubbles and bug spray.
🛒 Pro Tested: Forbes Best Stroller Fan
I love the Momcozy fan with its cute octopus arms 🐙
🎶 4. Portable Jams
When in doubt, get ‘em out. Change of scene does as all good when were going stir crazy. Take a portable Bluetooth speaker outside and have a midday dance party. Or go sit on the curb with some light jazz and no one talking to you. Its multipurpose.
JBL Portable Bluetooth Speaker
🌙 5. Toddler Travel Bed = Sleepytime MVP
If you're headed to Grandma’s, a beach house, or anywhere that isn’t home, a travel bed for your toddler is worth every penny. No wrestling a child in a hotel bed at 10PM? Yes, please.
The Pros Know: Best Toddler Travel Beds – Forbes
“When traveling with toddlers, everyone sleeps so much better when they have their own dedicated sleep space,” says Sara Huff, a product expert at the kids travel rental service Babyquip.
My Fave: Hiccapop Inflatable Bed.
🌴 6. My Summer MVP: The Travel Stroller
I’ve tested a lot of strollers (hello, expert street cred), and for summer? Lightweight, foldable, and stylish wins.
🛒 Pro-Tested: Best Travel Strollers – Forbes
I think a one-handed fold is a definite bonus; when you’re traveling, you often have a million things to carry, kids on one arm and 10 seconds to get everyone seated, so the last thing you want to worry about is getting a bulky and complicated stroller to close,” says Sarah Huff, a product expert at BabyQuip, which rents baby gear to traveling parents.
💡 I personally love the Colugo Compact.
Not a NEED but a definite holy moly this is AWESOME!
Coolers are essential for summers on the go. Ice, drinks, sammies, water bottles, snacks etc. The Brumate BruTank is the radest cooler I’ve ever had. It has a reservoir for water with a built in tap, separate ice for other drinks and cold foods, and a dry storage rack for stuff you don’t want soggy. Seriously a game changer if you are out and about all summer!
Need help picking what works for your family? DM me or head to my Instagram where I’ve got even more expert picks, gear guides, and parenting survival hacks.
The Best Water Tables for Summer (and Why Step2 Basically Owns the Game)
Let’s talk water tables.
Because if you’ve got kids under 6 and a backyard (or a driveway, a patio, a patch of grass), a water table is the unsung hero of summer survival. These magical plastic wonders keep kids entertained for actual stretches of time—which means you might finish a cup of coffee while it’s still hot. Or at least lukewarm.
I’ve tested a ton of water tables over the years, and one brand consistently nails it: Step2.
They’ve basically built an empire on durable, sensory-friendly, activity-packed outdoor toys. So if you’re on the hunt for the best water table for your little splash monsters, here’s my expert roundup—with affiliate links because mama’s gotta monetize that gear obsession.
💦 Best Overall: Step2 Rain Showers Splash Pond Water Table
If I could only recommend one, this would be it. It’s sturdy, easy to assemble (praise hands), and has a waterfall effect that makes toddlers lose their minds in the best way. The accessories actually stay on (looking at you, bargain brands), and the multiple levels mean more than one kid can play without turning it into WWE.
➡️ Shop the Rain Showers Splash Pond Water Table
👶 Best for Younger Toddlers: Waterfall Discovery Wall
Perfect for littles who are still mastering the “not drinking the water” skill. There’s no big reservoir of water to dump or to fall into. Plus sitters and standers will have fun!
➡️ Shop the Waterfall Discovery Wall
🧑🔬 Most Extra (in a Good Way): Misting Mountain and Waterfall
You heard me. Misting. Waterfall. It is EPIC and even I have fun with this thing. I guess I am most extra, in a good way.
🏝 Best for Multi-Kid Chaos: Step2 Cascading Cove Sand & Water Table
Water on one side, sand on the other. AKA sibling diplomacy in plastic form. It even comes with an umbrella, which you’ll appreciate after 15 minutes in full sun. Bonus: drain plugs that actually work.
➡️ Shop the Cascading Cove Table
🧽 Quick Tips for Water Table Bliss:
Toss in a drop of baby soap and call it “car wash day” for toy trucks.
Use kitchen utensils, measuring cups, and sponges for bonus sensory fun.
Drain and rinse after every use (sorry, but moldy splash zones are not the move).
Store accessories in a dollar store bin so you’re not hunting for the duck with one eye every morning.
Bottom Line?
A good water table buys you peace, play, and a few uninterrupted sips of your drink of choice. And Step2 just gets it. Whether you’re chasing toddlers, entertaining preschoolers, or prepping your backyard for chaos in a bathing suit, these tables are built to last—and to keep your kids delightfully soaked and happy.
☀️ Ready to make summer easier (and splashier)? Click any of the links above to grab one of my tried-and-true Step2 picks!
Packing Cubes vs. Shoving: A Scientific Review (Sort of)
Let’s be honest: there are two types of travelers—those who swear by packing cubes and those who shove their belongings into a suitcase like they’re late for a flight and their suitcase owes them money.
As someone featured in Scary Mommy’s article on packing cubes, I’ve tested both methods. I’ve rolled, folded, zipped, and yes, shoved. And after years of traveling with kids (and way too many tiny socks), I’m here to give you the lowdown on what actually works when packing for a family vacation.
The Case for Packing Cubes
Packing cube people are planners. They're the human equivalent of a well-labeled spice rack. Their kids’ outfits are sorted by day, activity, and vibe. And honestly? It works.
Benefits of packing cubes:
Keeps clothes organized, wrinkle-free, and compact
Makes unpacking at your destination super simple
Helps you overpack without feeling like you’re overpacking
You can pack by person or by day for less chaos on family trips
👉 My favorites:
Bagail Packing Cubes on Amazon – affordable and durable
OlarHike Luggage Organizers- these work using compression and are just a little bit more pack for your cube if you get my drift
No Reception Club The Sliders Complete Set – cute and colorful if you like a little flair (these are by far my favorite and the most durable)
Add the Dopp Kit to complete your full packing set
The Case for Shoving It All In
On the flip side, the "shovers" among us are free spirits. You believe in the power of the squish. You trust your suitcase zipper and your memory (until you forget pajamas and pack four pairs of heels).
Pros of the shove-and-go method:
No prep work
Great for last-minute packers
Surprisingly effective if you're good at Tetris and denial
Cons:
Wrinkles galore
You will dig through your bag like a raccoon mid-vacation ( I ❤️ raccoons, though)
Packing anxiety at every turn
My Verdict: Packing Cubes Win (Especially for Moms)
If you’re traveling with kids, don’t make it harder than it has to be. Packing cubes keep your sanity intact and your suitcase from exploding mid-trip. Each kid gets their own cube. Outfits stay together. Dirty clothes don’t touch clean clothes. Everyone wins.
Still a shover? I see you. I support you. Learn from me and pack at least ONE cube for messy clothes, dirty unmentionables, and who knows what’s on those sneakers)
TL;DR: Packing cubes are a small investment with big payoffs for organized, low-stress family travel. Shoving is fine… until you need that one sock and it’s at the bottom of a mountain of chaos.
📌 Need more expert packing hacks with a side of sass?
Follow me on Instagram @sarahknowsherstuff and listen to the Tiny Travelers podcast for more no-fluff travel tips for parents who like their vacations almost as much as they like peace and quiet.
🔗 Also read the full Scary Mommy article where I was featured for more expert takes on cubes!
5 Ways to Actually Relax on a Family Vacation
(Yes, even with kids. Yes, I’m serious.)
Let’s be honest: the phrase “family vacation” can sometimes feel like a lie. You pack half your house, wrangle tiny humans through TSA, and by the time you’ve unpacked the snacks for the third time in 12 hours, you’re wondering why you even left the house.
But! It is possible to relax on a family trip—you just have to plan for it. Here are five ways I’ve actually found peace (and a few deep breaths) while traveling with kids.
1. Lower Your Expectations… Even Lower Than That
If your idea of vacation includes lounging with a book for hours, let's adjust. Aim for a solid 15 minutes of peace with no one needing a snack or a band-aid. Anything above that? Bonus. If you go into it expecting some chaos, the calm will feel like a gift.
2. Rent Baby Gear at Your Destination
Nothing ruins a vacation faster than hauling gear through three airports and a rental car line. I use BabyQuip to rent clean, safe gear delivered straight to where we’re staying. Fewer logistics = more relaxation. Period.
🛬 Check gear rentals here
3. Build in Chill Time (and Stick to It)
Every trip doesn’t need a packed itinerary. Schedule in actual downtime—like beach hours with no plans, pool days, or lazy mornings where the only goal is finishing your iced coffee before it melts. Your nervous system will thank you.
4. Book Kid-Friendly Everything
Don’t try to force your toddlers into your ideal adult trip. Choose hotels with splash pads. Restaurants where no one glares at you if a crayon hits the floor. Tours with a stroller policy and snacks included. When your environment is kid-friendly, you can actually enjoy being there too.
5. Have a “Save Mom” Strategy
Let everyone know: Mom gets 30–60 minutes a day to herself. Morning walk, solo Target run, spa treatment, whatever. The rest of the crew will survive. You are not their cruise director 24/7—and recharging makes you a way better travel companion.
TL;DR:
The vacation won’t be perfect. But it can be restful(ish), joyful, and worth the effort—if you set the tone and protect your peace.
Because even moms deserve to come home from vacation feeling like they got one.
Mommy Summer Camp: Our Favorite Family Tradition
And it doesn’t even involve a plane ticket
Every year, after the last lunchbox is emptied and the final school bell rings, I take a full week off work. Not for a big vacation. Not for a home renovation. But for something way more fun: Mommy Summer Camp.
It’s a sacred tradition in our house—one full week of fun, spontaneity, and snacks that aren’t packed in bento boxes.
What Is Mommy Summer Camp?
Think: low-stress summer magic without the flight delays, the packing list meltdowns, or the “wait, where’s your other shoe?!” energy of a full-blown trip. It’s me + the boys doing fun, local(ish), memory-making things we never have time for during the school year. It’s basically a staycation, but better—because we’re doing it our way.
No camps. No work. No expectations to be productive.
Just play, connection, and zero pressure to cook anything that doesn’t involve a drive-thru.
What We Actually Do
Every year’s a little different, but here are some past Mommy Summer Camp hits:
Haunted ghost tour (yes, we’re that kind of family)
Every splash pad within a 50-mile radius—we’ve probably reviewed 1,700 at this point
Multiple zoos and aquariums because animals are a guaranteed win
Beaches, pools, and water parks, oh my
Random weekday movies with giant slushies
Trying new restaurants where we don’t eat chicken nuggets
Ice cream before lunch. Repeatedly.
And of course, “Back to Summer” clothes shopping—because my kids wear uniforms to school, so we skip the usual back-to-school mall chaos. This is our time to pick out their “fun clothes” for the summer: graphic tees, new swim trunks, and maybe something neon because we’re feeling bold.
Why It Works
We’re not traveling, so the kids sleep in their own beds (and so do I 🙌).
It’s age-appropriate—they’re old enough to be curious, young enough to still think I’m cool (some days).
No pressure to clean, cook, or over-perform. I’m not trying to be Pinterest Mom. I’m just Present Mom.
We make memories, not spreadsheets.
Start Your Own Mommy Summer Camp
You don’t need a whole week off. Even a long weekend or a few intentional afternoons can do the trick. The key is: drop the expectations and just hang out. Let the kids help plan it, eat the snow cone, and skip bedtime once or twice.
And if you need an official camp motto? Ours is: “Fun is the only rule.”
Surviving Summer Travel with Toddlers (And Maybe Even Enjoying It)
Because someone’s going to cry on this trip—and let’s try to make sure it’s not you.)
Ah, summer travel with toddlers: the sticky-fingered, snack-demanding, meltdown-prone adventure of a lifetime. I’ve done it all—from road trips to red-eyes—and survived to tell the tale. Here are my tried-and-true tips for traveling with toddlers without losing your cool (or your luggage).
1. Pack Like a Pro (Not a Pack Mule)
You don’t need everything. You need the right things. Think:
✔ A lightweight travel stroller (the kind that folds with one hand and doesn’t require an engineering degree)
✔ A few versatile outfits that layer easily
✔ Gear that multitasks—like a travel crib that doubles as a playpen
Need recs? I’ve tested dozens—check out my favorite travel picks here.
2. Rent the Big Stuff—Trust Me
Don’t drag the car seat, crib, high chair, sound machine, and toddler throne across three airports. BabyQuip (hi, that’s me 👋) rents clean, safe, fully insured baby gear at your destination. We deliver it right to your Airbnb or hotel. Or the Airport. Or grandma’s house. Or…
🛬 Book gear rentals now
3. Snacks. On. Snacks.
Toddlers are basically tiny emotional support raccoons. Keep ‘em fed and you’ll avoid most meltdowns. I pack a mix of favorites (pouches, bars, fruit snacks) and one or two new things they’ve never tried before—it’s like snack roulette, but in a fun way. I learned about the snack-le box from Rachel from Hey, Sleepy Baby and it is a game changer. Fill up a little tackle box with all the fave treats; boom, hours of snacking, and less (hopefully) whining.
4. Schedule Like a Sagittarius (aka: Loosely)
Structure is great… until it causes a full-body tantrum in front of the Lincoln Memorial. Keep your itinerary light and flexible. Plan one “must-do” activity each day and leave room for naps, spontaneous splash pad breaks, and the occasional emergency diaper blowout or mom crash-out.
5. Expect Chaos—But Prep Like a Queen
The truth? Traveling with toddlers is a circus. But with the right prep (and snacks), it can be a fun circus. Lower your expectations, laugh at the absurd moments, and repeat after me: “This will be a core memory—even if it’s a messy one.”
You’ve got this.
And if all else fails, Coke Zero + cartoons = survival.
How to Clean Baby Gear Without Losing Your Will to Live
(From someone who’s cleaned more strollers than she’s had hot baths in the last 10 years.)
Let’s get real: baby gear is gross. It’s sticky, crumb-filled, and mysteriously always smells like something fermented. But it doesn’t have to be a nightmare to clean—especially if you’ve got the right tips (and the right mindset).
I’ve cleaned thousands of items as a BabyQuip Quality Provider and gear expert—and spoiler alert—Wirecutter even interviewed me for their ultimate guide to cleaning strollers. So yes, you’re in good hands.
1. Don’t Wing It—Check the Manual First
Before you go rogue with a screwdriver and bleach, check the manufacturer's instructions. Not every seat pad is machine washable (ask me how I know 😅). Some gear can be gently hosed down. Some… should never touch water. Ever. And car seats, those are serious business. It's all fun and games until it comes to a life-saving device. Using the wrong products or methods on car seats can render them unusable according to the manufacturer. Think twice before wiping those down with Lysol wipes!
2. Vacuum Like You Mean It
Start by removing the obvious debris—Goldfish crumbs, playground sand, mystery fuzz—using a handheld vacuum or even a shop vac if you're feeling powerful. A soft brush attachment works great for crumbs in crevices, while a toothbrush handles the truly cursed spots. Do you have an air compressor in the garage or a can of compressed air by the keyboard? Blow the crumbs out of all the nooks and crannies!
3. The Stroller Deep Clean, Expert Edition
Wirecutter tapped me for their cleaning guide because, let’s be honest, I’ve been around the stroller block. My go-to process:
Mix mild soap (like baby shampoo) with warm water.
Use a cloth or sponge to spot clean fabric.
Wipe plastic and metal with baby-safe disinfectant.
Let it all air dry in the sun—nature’s free sanitizer.
🧼 Read the full feature here: Wirecutter Guide
4. Yes, Vinegar Works. No, It Won’t Make Your Gear Smell Like a Salad (Forever)
A 50/50 mix of distilled white vinegar and water is fantastic for mildew and stink—but test on a hidden area first. I promise the smell fades. (Your toddler's melted fruit snack? That might not.) However, vinegar is NOT approved for car seats, so only mild soap and water for those.
5. Machine Wash with Caution
If the fabric cover is washable (check the tag!), toss it on a gentle cold cycle. But never put gear parts in the dryer—unless you want to reinvent the shape of your infant insert. Air dry everything and pray your kids don’t touch it while it’s drying.
6. Want It Really Clean? Let a Pro Handle It.
If your car seat smells like road trip trauma or your stroller is sticky beyond repair, BabyQuip offers gear cleaning in many cities (yes, including me 👋). We’re talking pro-grade cleaning and a gear glow-up that’ll make you say “was that always white?”
🧽 Check for local BabyQuip cleaning services
Final Thought:
You don’t need to be a domestic goddess to have clean baby gear—you just need a few expert tricks, some patience, and maybe a little help. And if your gear still smells like regret? You’ve got options.
5 Things I Bought in May That I Didn’t Regret
(Cue the applause and the great skin.)
Look, I buy a lot of things. Some are “why did I do that?” and others? Chef’s kiss. This month, I happened to crush it. Here are five purchases that delivered—on hydration, glow, convenience, and cuteness.
1. Fino Hair Oil – for Rich Mom Hair Energy
This Japanese hair oil is liquid gold. It makes my hair shiny, soft, and smell like I actually went to the salon (even if I’m just at school pickup in sweats). A little goes a long way so the bottle lasts forever. Even my fine hair can handle just a little dab every day to shine’er up!
🛒 Get silky hair here
2. Medicube PDRN Pink Niacinamide Toner – My Glass Skin Era
I have no chill about this Korean toner https://amzn.to/4mxwXT7. It’s hydrating, soothing, and gives that “glass skin” glow we all chase on TikTok. Bonus: it actually works under makeup and doesn't make me break out.
🛒 Glow up here
3. Clean Skin Club Clean² Pads 2.0 – Washcloths? Never Heard of Her.
These disposable face pads are absurdly thick and soft, like the fancy spa version of a cotton round (square). I use them with micellar water to remove makeup, wipe off mascara smudges, clean boo-boos, you name it. I get them on auto-delivery because I refuse to be without them.
🛒 Stock up like I do
4. Single-Serve Bone Broth Packets – Wellness Without the Boil
I love a warm drink that isn’t coffee (IYKYK). These individual bone broth packets are my go-to when I want something comforting and protein-packed, but don’t have time to babysit a simmering pot like some homesteader on YouTube.
🛒 Add-to-cart-worthy broth
5. The Letter Necklace I’ve Been Wearing on Repeat
This one from Local Eclectic is dainty, personal, and goes with everything. Heads up: popular letters sell out fast. If you need something now, this Amazon version ships next-day and still gives classy, not cheap.
🛒 Etsy version
🛒 Amazon dupe
Why I’m Now Booking Tours Through GoWithGuide (And You Should Too)
You know I’m all about making family travel easier—and honestly? A good tour guide can make or break a trip. That’s why I’m so excited to officially partner with GoWithGuide. They’re not your typical big-bus tour company. This is travel made personal.
What Is GoWithGuide?
Think of GoWithGuide like the Airbnb of tour guides. You choose your destination, then pick a local expert who creates a private, customizable experience just for you and your crew. Want a street food crawl in Tokyo with a kid-friendly twist? Done. A chill walking tour in Rome where you can stop for gelato every hour? Say less. Not traveling internationally? Hit all the family-friendly secret spots with a local New Yorker, see the Hollywood sights with an experienced Angelino, or find another expert to tour you around wherever your family desires.
You’re not stuck with the standard one-size-fits-all tour that moves at grandma speed or ignores your toddler’s meltdown schedule. You set the pace, ask the questions, and get the inside scoop from a local who actually lives there.
Why I Love It (and Why You Will Too)
Local, vetted guides: These aren’t random freelancers. These are passionate pros who love showing off their city.
Custom itineraries: No boring tourist traps unless you want the cheesy photo op.
One-on-one experiences: No strangers. No megaphones. Just your people.
Family-friendly options: Many guides cater to families, and you can message ahead to confirm diaper bag breaks and snack stops.
Perfect for Family Travel
If you’ve followed me for more than five minutes, you know I’m not into over-complicating travel. I want real experiences that don’t feel like logistical nightmares. Booking a private tour with GoWithGuide lets you:
Avoid the crowds
Keep your kids engaged
Actually learn something without having to Google “What did we just see?”
You know I only recommend things I’d use myself (and honestly, I already am planning our next family trip with a GoWithGuide tour locked in).
👉 Click here to find your perfect tour and thank me later.
✈️ Travel Must-Haves for Moms Who Actually Want to Enjoy the Trip
Traveling with kids is not for the weak. It’s for the caffeinated, the prepared, and the parents who know that one solid gear upgrade can change the game. Here are my go-to travel must-haves that save my sanity every time—and yes, they’re all products I actually use.
🧳 1. WAYB Pico Travel Car Seat
Say goodbye to dragging a clunky car seat through the terminal like it’s your personal punishment. The WAYB Pico folds flat, weighs just 8 pounds, and installs in seconds. It’s TSA-friendly, FAA-approved, and sanity-saving.
👉 Grab the WAYB Pico here and use my code for free shipping!!
✨ 2. Guava Family Lotus Travel Crib
You know what doesn’t belong on vacation? A pack-and-play that weighs 50 pounds. The Lotus Travel Crib is ultra-light, folds into a backpack, and sets up faster than your toddler can ask for snacks. Seriously, this bad boy is AWESOME for traveling parents who need SLEEP!
👉 Check it out here
🛞 3. Step2 Whisper Ride Cruiser
It’s part stroller, part push car, and 100% energy-burner. The Step2 Whisper Ride Cruiser is my secret weapon for keeping toddlers entertained and contained while exploring walkable cities, airports, or even hotel hallways.
👉 Shop Step2’s travel-friendly rides here with my code!
🌈 4. Colugo Compact Stroller
Compact, cute, and built for travel chaos. The Colugo Compact folds one-handed (bless), reclines for naps, and fits in most overhead bins. It’s also way chicer than the travel strollers of yesteryear. It even comes with a backpack carrying case, making it SO portable.
👉 Colugo Compact Stroller
🎧 5. Busy Baby Silicone Mat
This magical mat sticks to plane trays, restaurant tables, and windows (yes, windows) and keeps your kid from launching toys into the abyss.
👉 Busy Baby Mat on Amazon ← direct affiliate link
🧼 6. The Ultimate Mom Pouch
Wipes, snacks, stain remover, a mini pharmacy, and that one lip balm you’ll never find again. Keep it all in a zippered pouch so you’re not elbow-deep in your bag searching for Band-Aids during a gate delay. If you’re like me and tend to forget that ONE THING, this pouch has it all and you don’t even have to fill it yourself!
👉 Toiletry Travel Kit ← direct affiliate link
☕ 7. Your Personal Hydration & Caffeine Survival Kit
Staying hydrated and semi-human is the name of the game. Pack your water bottle, hydration packets, and preferred caffeine (you already know I’ve got a Coke Zero within arm’s reach). Try Liquid IV for those long travel days when you just can’t seem to stay hydrated enough/
👉 Liquid IV ← direct affiliate link
✨ Final Pro Tip:
Traveling with kids doesn’t have to be chaotic. With the right gear, it can be almost enjoyable. And when in doubt? Lower expectations, raise snacks. Repeat.
Working Mom Essentials You'll Actually Use
(Because we don't have time for fluff—or another gratitude journal we won’t open. Don’t lie to me. You won’t.)
Whether you're hustling from your home office, the school pick-up line, or a red-eye flight with goldfish in your bra, working moms need gear that actually works. No more “aspirational” gadgets collecting dust—this list is the real MVP lineup.
1. The One-Click Undereye Savior
Sleep is a suggestion, not a guarantee. These hydrogel eye patches with microneedles and caffeine help you fake 8 hours in 10 minutes flat.
Try: skyn ICELAND Hydro Cool Firming Under Eye Patches
2. A Charger That Does As Much As You Do
This multi-tasking charger will blow other power strips out of…the wall? If you’re anything like me, your home office is exploding with screens, plugs, devices, and charges. Keep them all organized and neat with this power station.
🛍 Try: Power Strip Tower With Surge Protector – Because blowing a fuse is so 2010.
3. The World's Most Magical Stain Remover
For coffee spills, baby spit-up, or whatever that mystery spot is, right before your big presentation. I’ve tried it and it works on everything. Ask me how I know.
🛍 Try this: Miss Mouth’s Messy Eater Stain Treater – It’s a cult favorite for a reason.
4. A Compact Ring Light
Whether you’re on Zoom, recording a Reel or taking a picture for your security badge, good lighting makes a difference.
🛍 Try this: Desk Ring Light with Stand – Clips to your laptop or stands on your desk/table, making you look like you slept (even if you didn’t).
5. A Mini Desk Fan (Yes, Really)
Hormones? Deadlines? Both? A cute personal fan will save you from the mid-call flop sweat.
🛍 Try this: Jisulife Portable Fan – Rechargeable, quiet, and TikTok famous.
6. A Tiny Vacuum You’ll Want to Marry
Desk crumbs, car snacks, purse disasters—this thing handles it all and looks cute doing it.
🛍 Try: Brigii Mini Vacuum – Equal parts functional and oddly satisfying.
7. Noise Reducing Earplugs
I don’t want to hear everything, just the important stuff. Like “FIRE” or “UH OH!”
🛍 Try: Loop Quiet 2 Earplugs - comfortable, stylish, and make you feel like you’re in a quiet(er) dream world.
8. Grocery Delivery Service
Not to be dramatic, but getting a grocery delivery service changed my life. It saves me HOURS, I can just re-order what my picky eaters don’t eat every week and I don’t have to brave the crowds.
🛍 Try: Amazon Fresh- no more impulse buys in the candy aisle…
Final Mic Drop
Working moms don’t need more pressure—we need more practical magic. These finds won’t change your life (unless that vacuum really speaks to you), but they will make your day-to-day feel a little less chaotic and a lot more competent.
Want more genius finds?
Follow me on Instagram @sarahknowshersstuff for no-fluff advice, gear recs, and mom life that’s as real as your unread Slack DMs.
Working From Home With Kids: Real-Life Tips for Remote Work Survival
Working from home with kids is hard. You’re juggling parenting and productivity like a champ—even when it feels like a circus act. Give yourself credit, lower the bar when you need to, and remember: if everyone’s alive and the WiFi still works, you’re doing amazing.
Working remotely with children at home can feel like a full-contact sport. Whether you're balancing Zoom meetings, snack requests, or the occasional toddler meltdown, it's a challenge millions of parents are navigating every day.
Here’s how to make working from home with kids not just manageable, but actually workable.
1. Set Clear Boundaries for Work and Family Time
Establishing boundaries is essential when working from home with children. Create visual signals (like a closed door or headphones) that indicate “do not disturb” time. Be consistent and repeat expectations daily—kids forget faster than Chrome eats up RAM.
2. Create a Mini Workspace for Your Kids
One of the best ways to encourage independent play during work hours is to give your kids their own “office.” Use an old keyboard, some coloring pages, and kid-safe headphones to mimic your setup. It gives them a sense of control—and keeps your real laptop safe from sticky fingers.
3. Accept—and Normalize—Background Noise
Remote work with children isn't going to be quiet, and that’s okay. Most teams now understand that parenting while working from home is real life. If your toddler joins your video call or your dog barks mid-presentation, roll with it. It’s relatable, not unprofessional.
4. Use Time Blocks and Work in Sprints
The key to working from home with young kids is flexibility. Instead of aiming for long, uninterrupted hours, break your workday into sprints. Use nap time, screen time, or early mornings for deep focus, and lighter tasks for more chaotic moments.
5. Don’t Underestimate the Power of Bribery
A little positive reinforcement (read: snacks or screen time) can go a long way. Keep a stash of easy wins for when you need 15 minutes of uninterrupted focus. It’s not bribery—it’s strategic motivation. We’re the CEO of our house and kids!
6. Invest in Remote Work Essentials
Whether you're managing meetings or emails, having the right tools makes all the difference. A few must-haves for remote work parents:
Noise-canceling headphones to block out background chaos
A sturdy wagon or an easy-to-push stroller for midday walks (everyone needs to get out their yayas)
A stand for your eyeglasses (stop and start constantly means setting my glasses down and losing them)
An educational bribery device for when you really just need to get stuff done
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Final Thoughts on Working Remotely with Kids
Working from home with kids isn’t easy—but it is doable. You’re teaching your children flexibility, resilience, and the importance of balancing work and family life. And that’s something to be proud of, even if your desk is covered in Goldfish crumbs.
Need help choosing gear that makes life easier? I’ve tested the best baby gear for remote-working parents. Shop my top picks for strollers, toddler beds, and travel cribs right here.
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Family-Friendly Mini Getaways in Southern California
Quick weekend escapes that are kid-approved and grown-up-friendly
If you're dreaming of a getaway that doesn’t require a plane ticket, a week off work, or a meltdown in security, this one’s for you. Southern California is packed with amazing family-friendly destinations that are perfect for quick weekend trips with kids. Whether you're chasing sunshine, fresh air, or just a new backdrop for your snack breaks, I’ve rounded up my favorite kid-approved getaways that actually feel like a vacation.
1. Palm Springs, CA – Desert Getaway for Families with Style
Looking for a warm, sunny weekend trip with the kids? Palm Springs delivers. With year-round sunshine, family-friendly resorts, and retro charm, this desert town is perfect for relaxing and playing. Visit the Living Desert Zoo & Gardens, ride the Palm Springs Aerial Tramway for panoramic views, or splash all day in the hotel pool.
🧳 Travel Tip: Choose a hotel or vacation rental with kitchen access and make most meals yourself. Less time spent dining out with kids who don’t eat anything anyway.
2. Santa Barbara, CA – California Coast Charm for the Whole Family
Santa Barbara is where coastal relaxation meets family fun. Take a stroll down Stearns Wharf, visit the Santa Barbara Zoo (yes, it’s walkable and adorable), and let the little ones run wild at Chase Palm Park. Parents can sneak in a wine tasting or grab a fancy coffee while the kids build sandcastles.
📸 Bonus: It’s incredibly photogenic, with tons of stroller-friendly paths and ocean views.
3. San Diego, CA – Ultimate Southern California Family Destination
San Diego might just be the MVP of kid-friendly travel. With iconic attractions like the San Diego Zoo, LEGOLAND California, and SeaWorld San Diego, there’s no shortage of fun. But beyond the big-ticket stops, you’ll find family beaches, interactive museums, and beautiful parks that make it easy to relax while the kids stay entertained.
🌴 Pro Tip: Skip overpacking by using a baby gear rental service—less stuff, more fun.
4. Lake Arrowhead, CA – Mountain Retreat Without the Stress
Just a couple hours from LA, Lake Arrowhead offers a cozy, peaceful escape in the San Bernardino Mountains. Think lake views, forest hikes, paddle boats, and charming village vibes. It’s the perfect spot for unplugged family bonding, especially in fall or spring when the weather is crisp but not freezing.
🏕 Why it works: Plenty of spacious vacation rentals, low-key outdoor activities, and a slower pace that works with kids' rhythms.
5. Joshua Tree, CA – Desert Adventure That’s Surprisingly Kid-Friendly
Joshua Tree National Park is more than an artsy Instagram backdrop—it’s a wonderland for curious kids. Giant boulders to climb, open desert to explore, and a star-studded night sky that makes bedtime negotiable. Stay in a fun Airbnb or glamp it up nearby for a low-key adventure that still feels exciting.
✨ Insider Insight: Bring your own bedtime comforts (blackout curtains in the summer are KEY). It helps after a full day of outdoor exploring.
Quick Tips for Easy Family Travel:
Pack lighter. Baby gear rentals are available in most cities—skip the full trunk struggle.
One major activity per day. Keep it simple and leave room for spontaneous fun.
Look for walkable destinations. Less time in the car = happier kids (and parents).
Southern California is basically built for weekend family getaways. Whether you're craving beaches, mountains, or desert magic, there's a destination just a short drive away that's ready to deliver fresh air, fun, and fewer tantrums.
Ready to plan your next mini escape? Let me know where you're heading—and tag @sarahknowsherstuff if you spot one of my favorite strollers in the wild. ☀️
Mother’s Day Reflections: The Day Came, The Day Went
Well, Mother’s Day came and went. And if you're anything like me, you're probably still a little emotionally hungover.
Maybe you got breakfast in bed. Perhaps you were the one cooking it. Maybe you had a beautiful day with your family, or it felt bittersweet, chaotic, and flat-out exhausting. For moms, Mother’s Day rarely looks like the picture-perfect version we see online.
Now that the flowers are wilting and the cards are shoved in a drawer, I’ve been reflecting on what this day really brought up—and what it means to actually feel seen and celebrated in motherhood.
Mother’s Day Is a Mirror
Whether you're a new mom, a seasoned parent, or somewhere in between, Mother's Day reflects where we are emotionally.
It shines a light on how supported we feel (or don’t), what we’re still carrying behind the scenes, and how much unspoken labor goes into holding everything together. You can love your family with your whole heart and still feel invisible sometimes. That doesn’t make you ungrateful, it makes you human.
The Real Moments Don’t Make the Social Feed
No one posted the part where you were up late doing laundry so there’d be clean clothes for brunch. Or the moment you cried because it was just too much. Or that quiet ache for a mom you’re missing this year.
These are the parts that matter most. They’re not photogenic, but they are real. And they are a part of your story.
Let the Day Be What It Is
This year, I didn’t try to script Mother’s Day. I didn’t force the magic or over-plan. I just tried to be present. Some parts were lovely, others were not, and I let both exist without guilt.
If your day didn’t go the way you hoped, you’re not alone. And if it did? Amazing, rub it in why don’t ya??? Just kidding. You deserve it.
A Little Self-Care Reminder
If you’re feeling the emotional (and literal) puffiness from all of it, treat yourself to these microneedle under-eye patches that work actual magic on tired eyes. I swear to you, these are like having a lower bleph overnight.
Motherhood is layered. Messy. Sacred. Exhausting. Beautiful. I hope you felt celebrated. And if you didn’t, I hope you at least peed alone a couple of times. That counts too.
What Moms Really Want for Mother’s Day
Heads up: This post contains affiliate links, which means I may earn a small commission if you click and purchase—at no extra cost to you. I only recommend stuff I’d give my own mom (or hoard for myself). Thanks for supporting Sarah Knows Her Stuff!
Looking for Mother’s Day gift ideas that’ll actually make her feel loved (and not just...tolerated)? Here's the real list of what moms truly want, with zero DIY candles or popsicle stick crafts.
Whether you're shopping for your partner, your mom, your BFF—or treating your damn self (do it)—this gift guide is loaded with thoughtful, practical, and pampering ideas. And yes, I made it super clickable. ADD TO CART, y’all!
A Professional Car Detailing Appointment
Let’s be real—if she’s hauling kids, snacks, and emotional baggage, her car could use a refresh. A professional car detailing gift says “I see your chaos, and I’m here to wipe it clean.” Literally.
✨ Gifting Tip: Don’t just buy a gift card. Book it, confirm it, arrange childcare. Take the mental load off her plate. Maybe even drive her there and have her fave bevie in the car. Its the little things.
Add-On Gift:
→ This handheld car vacuum is perfect for quick cleans in between details. Affordable and mighty.
A Massage—Without Her Lifting a Finger
Want to win Mother’s Day? Schedule a 90-minute massage—and take care of every detail. Book the massage, pre-pay the tip, arrange childcare, and put the laundry in the dryer. It’s time.
Not able to book IRL? Give her at-home vibes with:
Reed Scent Diffuser (I’ve repurchased this for myself and several other people because of how great it is. Smells divine and lasts forever)
Easyplant = Pretty + Low Maintenance
Flowers are out, plants are IN! Especially plants she won’t accidentally kill. Easyplant makes self-watering, low-maintenance indoor plants that look good and don’t need babysitting. I have a few of these in my house and they are the easiest plants to take care of- set it and forget it!
Perfect for moms who love plants—but not plant drama.
→ Shop with my link and treat her to a living gift she can actually keep alive.
Cozy, Indulgent Self-Care Gifts
These aren’t just “fun extras”—they’re gifts she wouldn’t buy for herself but totally deserves:
Silk pillowcase – fancy sleep, frizz-free hair, silkyyyy
Loop Ear Plugs - seriously, how did I live without noise-cancelling headphones?!?
Cooling Body Pillow - one of the best purchases of my life. I’m not kidding.
Time Alone—With No Guilt
Best. Gift. Ever. Plan time just for her—brunch with friends, solo shopping trip for things SHE wants, or three uninterrupted hours at home (no kids).
🚫 No guilt.
✅ Yes to quiet.
💡 Make sure she doesn’t have to coordinate a thing.
So skip the mug, ditch the candle, and give her something that says, “I get it. I see you. And I planned something just for you.” That’s all moms really want. That and their pre-kid belly button.
How to Grow an Audience with Smart Data Tools (No Spreadsheet Required)
If you’ve ever stared at your social media insights like they were ancient runes, you’re not alone. Growing an audience isn’t magic—it’s data. The good news? You don’t need to be a marketing wizard or open a single Excel file. You just need the right tools.
In this post, I’m sharing three must-have data tools for content creators who want to grow fast and smart, without losing their minds or their weekends. Trust me, I do NOT have time to be messin’ around on the internet for hours. I need to know what works and what doesn’t.
Why You Need Data to Grow on Social Media
Most people try to grow their following by guessing: posting at random times, hopping on trends a week too late, and wondering why nobody’s saving their carousel posts. The secret? Using analytics tools that tell you what’s working—and what’s not—so you can stop spinning your wheels and start growing your audience with intention.
Let’s dive into three tools I use (and love) for audience growth across TikTok, Instagram, and beyond.
1. InsightTok AI: The Best TikTok Analytics Tool for Trendspotting
If you’re creating content on TikTok or Instagram Reels, you need InsightTok AI in your life. It helps you track trending audio, discover what’s working in your niche, and optimize your content strategy using real data.
I’ve used it to find songs that actually boost my views and plan content around what’s trending now, not last week. It’s intuitive, powerful, and yes, kind of addicting.
✅ Best for: TikTok creators, short-form video marketers, trend-hunters
📈 Helps with: Trend analysis, content ideas, audience engagement
🔗 Try it here: InsightTok AI – affiliate link
2. Later: Instagram Analytics & Scheduling in One Gorgeous Dashboard
If you’re trying to grow your Instagram following, Later makes it easy to track what content performs best by time of day, hashtag, format, and more. Their visual planner also helps you batch content and maintain a cohesive grid (even when life isn’t cohesive at all).
Want to know which Reels get the most saves or when your followers are actually online? Later gives you all of that, and then some.
✅ Best for: Instagram creators, brand accounts, aesthetic lovers
📈 Helps with: Scheduling, hashtag tracking, post performance
🔗 later.com (free + paid plans)
3. Metricool: One Dashboard to Track Everything (Yes, Everything)
When your content lives on five different platforms, Metricool becomes your new best friend. It lets you schedule posts, view cross-platform analytics, and generate reports that actually make sense.
Whether you're on TikTok, Instagram, Pinterest, YouTube, or your blog, Metricool helps you stay on top of what’s driving growth—without opening 17 browser tabs. (just like in my head)
✅ Best for: Multi-platform creators, small businesses, solopreneurs
📈 Helps with: Scheduling, performance tracking, reporting
🔗 metricool.com
How to Grow a Social Media Audience (Even If You’re Not a Tech Pro)
You don’t have to be an influencer. You don’t need a content team. You just need smart tools that show you how to grow an audience based on data, not desperation.
💡 Pro tip: Combine InsightTok AI for trend discovery, Later for Instagram strategy, and Metricool for everything else. That’s your new creator starter kit. You’re welcome.
Final Thoughts (and a Little Affiliate Love)
If you’re ready to stop guessing and start growing, try these tools and thank me later. Especially InsightTok AI—it’s changed how I create content and helps me grow with way less effort (and more results).
👉 Use my referral link to try it: insighttokai.com/?ref=sarahci
Want more content creation tips, audience growth hacks, and affiliate income strategies? Follow me on Instagram at @sarahknowshersstuff. Because yeah, I really do. ☺️
Things I Bought from Amazon in April That I’m Lowkey Obsessed With
I don’t know what kind of mood I was in this April (chaotic? self-improvement era? nesting even though I don’t have a baby?), but my Amazon order history was thriving. The good news: I regret nothing. Every single one of these things has earned a spot in my regular rotation.
Let’s break it down — what I bought, why I love it, and whether you actually need it too.
(These are affiliate links, which means I may earn a commission — but trust me, I paid full price and would do it again.)
1. Travel White Noise Machine
Link: [https://amzn.to/4lTSV2f]
I'm easily overstimulated…by everything. White noise is essential for me to block out annoying sounds when we’re traveling, in the car, or trying to relax. This one’s small, USB rechargeable, and doesn’t sound like a haunted fan. Sppppppoooooky. YogaSleep is the leader in sound machines, and honestly, I’m about to start keeping this one in my purse for emergencies.
2. Scalp Massager
Link: [https://amzn.to/3YmJ8HP]
I read an article (ok, ok, I watched a TikTok) about scalp massage and its impact on hair growth. After losing literally every strand of hair after having two kids back to back, I can use all the help I can get. Pro tip: Use this scalp massager with a silk bonnet on to stop snags!
3. Sandalwood Wide Tooth Comb
Link: [https://amzn.to/3GviUN6]
It’s wood. It’s wide. It smells like a fancy forest. I got it to loosely comb out my curls that never stay, and it's actually helpful, but it also feels like a dream on my scalp. A small luxury that lives in my bathroom and makes me feel like I’m the kind of woman who has routines.
4. Cooling Side Sleeper Pillow
Link: [https://amzn.to/42EwAhD]
Night sweats? Yeah, I got ‘em. In my desperate attempt to find something to help keep me from waking up drenched at 3am, I purchased this cooling pillow. It really is cooling and makes a huge difference in my heat levels. Be prepared to buy a few- my first THREE were stolen by pillow-hungry family members with no respect for their mother’s perimenopause symptoms. Rude.
5. Hiccapop Toddler Mattress
Link: [https://amzn.to/42EwAhD]
Yes, my kids are older, but this went in our kid’s room for sleepovers, and we bring it out into the living room for movie nights. It folds up, comes with a little travel bag, and is actually comfy. Like, I’ve laid on it. I’d sleep on it. Way better than a lumpy couch cushion or sad inflatable.
I don’t always hit it out of the park with my Amazon orders (RIP to the frother that leaked everywhere, I don’t even drink coffee), but these April finds? Super solid my guy. They’re functional, a little luxurious, and make everyday mom life feel slightly more, you know, together-y.
If you're adding to cart, start here. These are all wins.